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I'm not a fan of holidays
Jul. 9th, 2018 11:23 amHello all,
I've recently discovered that I tend to get depressed around holidays, and this past 4th of July was no exception. Luckily for me my family celebrated the 4th a few days earlier because many folks in my family had to work that day (including me. :() I've went through a bit of a rough depressive episode last week. I will say today I'm feeling a lot better though. I think I realized how difficult it is, and always has been for me to make friends. I feel like it's even more difficult ever since I've hit my 30's. People are usually settled into their friend groups at this point, and that tends to leave me in the forever alone camp. I will say that this has motivated me to do productive things like finally put some effort into learning Japanese. I have tons of books, and have bookmarked some great videos on learning the language. It also helps having a ton of Japanese music, and entertainment content to motivate me into actually following through with it.
All that sad stuff aside my ex-crush Nick actually held me a conversation yesterday. I think he assumed that me and creepy boy were together or something? I don't know, but I guess I look so sad an pitiful during my break he decided to talk to me lmao. I'm open to being friends with him because he seems like a cool guy, and we have some things in common. He also has a type of sarcastic dark humor that I can sort of get behind. Creepy guy on the other hand annoys the shit out of me, but he won't leave me alone. Then some days he completely ignores me, and honestly I could care less. The only reason he follows me around like a lost puppy is because I asked him ONE question about if he liked a particular video game. He's been clinging to me ever since, and I haven't been able to get rid of the guy. I actually switch around my breaks and lunches to avoid him if possible. He creeps me out honestly, and I wish he'd leave me be.
As for music I've been listening to a lot of different things. I saw this video on my twitter feed this morning, and I have to post it cause Chelsea Wolfe is awesome, and a wonderful gothy goddess. This particular song has a nice gothic rock vibe. I must warn you that the video is creepy, but that's her usual style.
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I've recently discovered that I tend to get depressed around holidays, and this past 4th of July was no exception. Luckily for me my family celebrated the 4th a few days earlier because many folks in my family had to work that day (including me. :() I've went through a bit of a rough depressive episode last week. I will say today I'm feeling a lot better though. I think I realized how difficult it is, and always has been for me to make friends. I feel like it's even more difficult ever since I've hit my 30's. People are usually settled into their friend groups at this point, and that tends to leave me in the forever alone camp. I will say that this has motivated me to do productive things like finally put some effort into learning Japanese. I have tons of books, and have bookmarked some great videos on learning the language. It also helps having a ton of Japanese music, and entertainment content to motivate me into actually following through with it.
All that sad stuff aside my ex-crush Nick actually held me a conversation yesterday. I think he assumed that me and creepy boy were together or something? I don't know, but I guess I look so sad an pitiful during my break he decided to talk to me lmao. I'm open to being friends with him because he seems like a cool guy, and we have some things in common. He also has a type of sarcastic dark humor that I can sort of get behind. Creepy guy on the other hand annoys the shit out of me, but he won't leave me alone. Then some days he completely ignores me, and honestly I could care less. The only reason he follows me around like a lost puppy is because I asked him ONE question about if he liked a particular video game. He's been clinging to me ever since, and I haven't been able to get rid of the guy. I actually switch around my breaks and lunches to avoid him if possible. He creeps me out honestly, and I wish he'd leave me be.
As for music I've been listening to a lot of different things. I saw this video on my twitter feed this morning, and I have to post it cause Chelsea Wolfe is awesome, and a wonderful gothy goddess. This particular song has a nice gothic rock vibe. I must warn you that the video is creepy, but that's her usual style.
( Read more... )
